i have learned an important lesson this weekend. Dont make important decisions and act on them without consulting with your spouse because he/she could have an incite that you have not even thought about. Always forgive when your forgiveness is requested, and don't go outside the issue when addressing an issue. I am learning how hard it is to be a wife and a parent. I was lied about by two people this weekend and after defending myself I accomplished nothing more than i could have by being quite and letting the truth set me free. My parents are good supports and came bearing dinner to watch the patriots vs the jaguars .... may the patriots never see the superbowl 2008!!!